So men are no longer wearing ties.  Even in Asia where men have traditionally been more formal, I notice that several companies have relaxed their dress codes.  Particularly on Friday, I see that a lot of men no longer dressing formal.  I hear that they think they look stiff.  I have always had problem with men, particularly Asian men, associating ties with stiffness.  In fact I think otherwise.  A tie actually adds color and charm to their otherwise dull clothes.

The ideal outfit for me when I choose to wear a tie is a black tie with a skin-tight, well-tailored button-down shirt.  So as not to wear like men do, you can leave it a bit loose, one or two buttons undone, and show some skin.  You might want to match it with well tailored pants or mini-skirt.  Boots or stiletto-heeled shoes (along with Dainty Footings) will complete the cool look.

If you are headed for a power-meeting with one of those groups of boring and dull investment bankers or lawyers, increase your power-factor by dressing like them.  Just close all your buttons like men do and walk into any conference room with confidence.  Notice the intimidated faces of all these powerful men.  You can always wear it with a tank top for a very casual style.